Talk about it, talk about him.

Posted by Lessa on December 28, 2008 in Widow Speak |

Some people, once a loved one has died think it’s just too hard to talk about them, too emotionally raw. I can see where they come to that conclusion, but I never once thought about NOT talking about Kevin. We spent 15 years together, and with three kids who were feeling his loss as keenly […]

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Way back when..

Posted by Lessa on December 20, 2008 in Kevin, Me |

As foggy as the day he died is due to grief, I can remember the day I met Kevin as clear as if it were just a few minutes ago. (I’d say “yesterday” but I can’t remember breakfast today, so we’ll go with a few minutes – right? right!) It was in high school, and […]

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Way back when..

Posted by Lessa on December 20, 2008 in Kevin, Me |

As foggy as the day he died is due to grief, I can remember the day I met Kevin as clear as if it were just a few minutes ago. (I’d say “yesterday” but I can’t remember breakfast today, so we’ll go with a few minutes – right? right!) It was in high school, and […]

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Why didn't you…

Posted by Lessa on December 17, 2008 in Widow Speak |

The number one question I get asked isn’t what you’d think. Everyone tends to shy away from the “What happened?” as they consider it too personal, and most often don’t want to bring up bad memories or force me to answer something I don’t want to think about, even now. But, once they DO ask […]

August 26, 2005

Posted by Lessa on December 13, 2008 in Widow Speak |

It’s been three and a half years, and I still cry. Not all the time, not as often, not always when expected or for the same triggers as the last time, but I do. I cry. I hate to cry – yet still… sometimes, you just can’t do anything about it. Kevin worked on “The […]

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