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Housekeeping!
I’m not the best housekeeper, much to my mama‘s dismay. (Have you entered her contest yet? Hurry!) Things pile up, we sift through piles, we rearrange them, we sometimes (rarely) toss them, its.. well. Let’s just say I’m a packrat that married a packrat, and we both possessed the “bah, who cares” gene which we, of course, passed down to our children.
But sometimes, enough is enough, and I find myself willing to do ANYTHING to get their rooms cleaned. Anything.
About a year after my husband died, the Boy decided that he wanted to move out into the “Manspace” and claim it as his room. The Manspace is 10×12 glorified shed that we built so the hubby and his friends could hang out and drink beer without driving me insane with their antics in the living room. It gave us space to call our own, and probably was the smartest thing I’d ever agreed too in our 15 years together. I wasn’t surprised the boy wanted to make it his own – nor was I shocked that the girls were WAY excited about it, as they’d then end up with their own room for the first time since the pup was born.
So he moved into the Manspace. And quickly it looked like a bomb went off inside, as OMG. What a mess! Remember the bravest girl, ever? Yeah, that was the last time it was really clean.
But all that is about to change. You see, he texted me (I AM SUCH A COOL MOM!) to ask a question, and I laid some pretty serious rules down on him before I’d say yes. The Manspace had to be cleaned and kept clean. He had to remember to make sure his door was closed, he had to take care of things ON HIS OWN. This would be his responsibility – NOT MINE – he was to handle ALL THINGS NEEDED in order to make it a success.
He agreed.
Wholeheartedly.
Meet our newest family member:

Understandably, I’ve mixed feelings – from “aw, cute” to “i do NOT wanna have to take care of it!” – but like I said, sometimes you’ll do ANYTHING to get them to clean their room. Sigh.
PS. He’s still without name – suggestions?
So. Miley Cyrus.
Since we’re talking about role models (…we are too. shh.) I thought it only appropriate we bring up this latest bunch of BS too. Everyone knows who Miley Cyrus is – daughter of Billy Ray, star of Hannah Montana, beloved by little girls, teens and tweens everywhere, right? I know some moms don’t like her […]
The Valentine Invitational!
It was the “home” meet today, and since my pup was determined to swim “unless i’m DEAD mom” despite the fact she was still having breathing problems/sick – we spent all day at the pool. We got there bright and early, and as soon as Auntie got there, we put her on the nebulizer for […]
Determination.
So, since I have a swimmer in the house now, I hear an awful lot about Michael Phelps, and other Olympic swimmers – and I’ve already sounded off about the big controversy revolving around the kid and that picture that’s been floating round, too. Because ya know I have an opinion and all, right? But […]
Sound advise.
Ever since my kids hit school age – or old enough to interact with their peers, their siblings, their cousins and were old enough to understand – I’ve tried to impart one very important lesson to my kids. It’s really very simple, though it’s a very important concept that a lot of kids never really […]