OMFG. People piss me off, you know? They really do. how fucking hard is it to put your CHILD first? How fucking hard is it to make sure that what’s best for your SON is of primary concern, not what’s best for you – or who hates who more, or who’s fucking who or how much you hate them or what was said 3 weeks ago that has no bearing on what was said today? How. fucking. HARD is that?<\/p>\n
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\nI’m a mom (…well, no shit sherlock. so thats where all those kids that look just like you came from…) and I can tell you right now that there is NOTHING I wouldn’t do to insure my kids happiness and well-being. I get them what they need, I try to get them what they want when it is reasonable. I make sure that they get all my love and support no matter what they decide to do, and I whallop them on those occasions where they deserve it, and make sure that they know that I love them even while I’m whalloping them.<\/p>\n
This concept is apparently too difficult for some people to understand. Those people being my brother in law, his ex, and their infant baby boy. Ch has come a long way – I have to give her that. IN just the past three weeks where I’ve been unrelently cruel in pointing out just WHAT she was doing wrong, she has actually realized that omfg – Lessa knows what she’s talking about! <\/p>\n
The bro in law on the other hand? I’ve hung up on his ass not once, but TWICE today. He now thinks that I’m on her side. Got news for them – I ain’t on ANYONE’s side but my nephew’s side. HE’s the one they’re gonna fuck up if this shit keeps going on and on.<\/p>\n
For the love of Conor, they need to simply STOP the shit. Quit picking at each other over the past. Quit doing things to deliberately piss the other one off. Put ONE thing in focus – that being what’s best for Conor. <\/p>\n
He said<\/p>\n
I didn’t know you blamed me for her leaving!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
after our first conversation. That. Is. Not. What. I’d. Said! I blame them BOTH for not having enough common fucking sense to realize that this relationship was DOOMED and get out BEFORE he forgot to wrap his dick and they got pregnant. But since nothing can be done with that, I now blame them BOTH for not standing up, forgetting about the past, and making a pact to move forward to see to the health and well-being of their son.<\/p>\n
It’s not easy – I know. I’ve gone for years not getting things for me because my kids or the Asshole needed something. It’s not going to get any easier. but for goddsake. <\/p>\n
GROW UP!<\/b><\/p>\n
Urg.<\/p>\n
And I’m sorry. Not a court in AK is going to take a prematurly born infant and move him off to someone in Vegas who has no steady work, anger management issues, etc. At least? Not on my watch. With Ch here, I at least have the ability to help. If that puts me on ‘her’ side in his eyes? So be it. In mine it puts me on my nephew’s side, because right now, that is what is best for him.<\/p>\n
Sigh. People are so fucking stupid.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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