{"id":1458,"date":"2008-09-29T15:17:25","date_gmt":"2008-09-29T23:17:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parentingteensblog.net\/?p=201"},"modified":"2008-09-29T15:17:25","modified_gmt":"2008-09-29T23:17:25","slug":"if-ya-cant-beat-em","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/2008\/09\/29\/if-ya-cant-beat-em\/","title":{"rendered":"If ya can&#039;t beat em&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.parentingteensblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/videogames.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.parentingteensblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/videogames.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"videogames\" width=\"298\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-571\" \/><\/a>&#8230;join em! And let them laugh at you while they win.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I&#8217;m talking about video games, as well as MMO gaming on the internet. When&#8217;s the last time you played with your teenagers?  A while back, Nik Yee over at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.incredibleinternet.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Incredible Internet<\/a> surveyed 300+ parents who do exactly that, play onlin games with their kids so that they have a better idea about what&#8217;s going on, and how to parent their children in regards to online activities. He has talked with teens and parents over the past year about the experiences and created a podcast to talk about his findings.<\/p>\n<p>Basically &#8211; those who play with their kids, have a much better idea of what is really going on. As Parents, we often tend to automatically veto any activity we aren&#8217;t sure about. We tend to say no before we even know all the details &#8211; and how better to get the details then to jump in and play? Sure, your kids might think your spying on them, but give them the joy of beating you a couple times as you flounder around trying to figure out HOW DO I JUMP OMG QUIT HITTING ME and laugh along with them, and soon they&#8217;ll a- be teaching you the ropes, b &#8211; be telling your friends that your hopelessly dorky, but in a kinda cool way and c &#8211; know that you care enough to be involved, and to help them make the right choices along the way. He&#8217;s even got a contract to sign between parents and children that can help all sides feel better about internet use and gaming.<\/p>\n<p>So check out the podcast below, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.incredibleinternet.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">the website as well<\/a> and get involved with your kids! Who knows, maybe you&#8217;ll get good enough to beat THEM!<\/p>\n<p><center><object width=\"400\" height=\"267\"><param name=\"allowfullscreen\" value=\"true\" \/><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\" \/><param name=\"movie\" value=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1769353&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1\" \/><embed src=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=1769353&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=&amp;fullscreen=1\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\"><\/embed><\/object><br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/1769353?pg=embed&amp;sec=1769353\">What online gaming parents know that you don&#8217;t<\/a> from <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/user709822?pg=embed&amp;sec=1769353\">Incredible Internet<\/a> on <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com?pg=embed&amp;sec=1769353\">Vimeo<\/a>.<\/center><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;join em! And let them laugh at you while they win. Yes, I&#8217;m talking about video games, as well as MMO gaming on the internet. When&#8217;s the last time you played with your teenagers? A while back, Nik Yee over at Incredible Internet surveyed 300+ parents who do exactly that, play onlin games with their [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[138,185],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication","category-video-games"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1458","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1458"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1458\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}