{"id":75,"date":"2004-04-18T16:29:44","date_gmt":"2004-04-19T01:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/2004\/04\/18\/letting-go\/"},"modified":"2004-04-18T16:29:44","modified_gmt":"2004-04-19T01:29:44","slug":"letting-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gonfalon.org\/eclat\/2004\/04\/18\/letting-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Letting go&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, The boy asked me today &#8220;mom, can I ride my bike into town and grab a soda at McDonalds and come home?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>I said no.<br \/>\nHe asked why.<\/p>\n<p>Erm. Unfortunately the &#8220;Because I&#8217;m not ready for you to be that old yet!&#8221; didn&#8217;t work. You know, I&#8217;m having no problem telling people that I am 34 years old now. But telling people and dealing with the fact that my son is 12 years old? THAT is KILLING me! *Sobs* I am not old enough to deal with this!<\/p>\n<p>I let him go, of course, but did the same thing my parents did (though for me, it was 7-11, and a payphone outside). He had to call me from the payphone there when he arrived, as well as before he left so that I knew exactly when he was on the bike trail. It&#8217;s just barely a mile into town, so it&#8217;s not like its a LONG way&#8230; but still. *Sob* This push for independance is going to kill me.<\/p>\n<p>And then I found a box, all taped up, that I didn&#8217;t know what was inside&#8230;.<br \/>\nOh. My. God.  Baby pictures. Baby footprints. Baby diapers. Just&#8230; man.<\/p>\n<p>So I thought I&#8217;d scan and share pictures of my babies &#8211; as I think of them, and as they REALLY are&#8230; *soft chuckle* Beautiful, ain&#8217;t they? (click to supersize)<\/p>\n<p><b>The Boy, now 12.<\/b><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Baby_1992.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Baby_1992.html','popup','width=393,height=435,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Baby_1992-thumb.jpg\" width=\"98\" height=\"108\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>  |  <a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Grade6_2004.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Grade6_2004.html','popup','width=366,height=518,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheBoy_Grade6_2004-thumb.jpg\" width=\"91\" height=\"129\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>The Girl, now age 9.5.<\/b><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_baby_1994.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_baby_1994.html','popup','width=156,height=225,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_baby_1994-thumb.jpg\" width=\"39\" height=\"56\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>  |  <a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_Grade4_2004.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_Grade4_2004.html','popup','width=315,height=458,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/TheGirl_Grade4_2004-thumb.jpg\" width=\"78\" height=\"114\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>The Pup, just shy of 5.<\/b><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_baby_1999.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_baby_1999.html','popup','width=369,height=377,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_baby_1999-thumb.jpg\" width=\"92\" height=\"94\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>  |   <a href=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_Preschool_2004.html\" onclick=\"window.open('http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_Preschool_2004.html','popup','width=317,height=447,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/reachthecolors.com\/eclat\/past\/pics\/ThePup_Preschool_2004-thumb.jpg\" width=\"79\" height=\"111\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>*SOBS!!!* I&#8217;m so OLD!!!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, The boy asked me today &#8220;mom, can I ride my bike into town and grab a soda at McDonalds and come home?&#8221; I said no. He asked why. Erm. Unfortunately the &#8220;Because I&#8217;m not ready for you to be that old yet!&#8221; didn&#8217;t work. 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