Let there be light..
Papa got tired of hitting his head on my broken chandelier in the dining room, which is also my office. I’ve learned over the years to sidestep it automatically, but well, poor papa is quite a bit taller then me too, and hit his head every single time. It was always something that was on […]
Two down, one to go.
The Memorial service was today, and I sat there through it thinking “Man, he’d have gotten a fuckin kick outa this…” The local lodge of Elks ran the services for him, and held their traditional Elks goodbye. the nice thing was that I didn’t have to do a thing, and he’d have just flat out […]
Cold and quiet
The viewing was hard. I knew it would be, and had been psyching myself up for it from the time i woke up till the time we got there. There was no way to prepare for it though, as it was just.. so… real. He looked like he was sleeping, but different. There was a […]
Ugh.
They are trying to kill me with papercuts! So. Much. Paperwork and burocratic bullshit! It’s insane. Mom’s been a doll and shuttled me from gov’t office to gov’t office to the store to the funeral home and listened and touched and stood strong while I answered question after question and made appointment after apointment and […]
Love, love, love.
As mom said here, and as sis said here. (click for more) And, as he always said… Love, love, love. [yesterday, today, forever.] heartbroken, ~L
